How many of us want to be loved...or wish to be loved more?
I'm convinced that a sizeable majority do, and most would seek that feeling of being loved...it is just how we each define 'love' that is the difference.
Love in all it's various guises, emotions, feelings, strengths and weaknesses, is out there, without doubt, if one can give it, another can receive it, and so one.
The Sunday Times had an article which I may have passed-on on another day, but it did catch my eye, as interesting, and a little enlightening. Not all in the article was exactly revolutionary, but, it offered more than a muse...please read;
1) Believe in You
If you do, others will. Don't wait for someone else to proclaim your talent or worth.
Perceptions of others are often formed by the cues you send out.
2) Reveal your inner eccentricity
Individuality is key to becoming a star, be it local or global.
[Gwen Stefani, Charlie Chaplin, Bjork)
3) Have a groovy glide
Stand up straight, shoulders back, hips, knees and arms loose, eyes ahead. It is those who move with ease and appear comfortable within their skins we find most attractive.
4) Charm everyone
To charm is to seduce. It is the result of actions that put others at ease, create a feeling of intimacy and bring warmth into an otherwise ordinary situation. Flattery, eye contact, light flirtation and making someone else feel good about themselves are the keys.
5) Radiate charisma
The word charisma derives from the ancient Greek charis, meaning gift. The idea is that the gods have breathed a special spirit into you. Nice, huh? It's all about believing that you have innate magnetism and powerful leadership qualities.
6) Tap into your star quality
Any casting director will tell you that this is all about f***ability. Crass, perhaps, but undeniable. Sex appeal is rooted in the ever-alluring promise of "maybe". Star quality is therefore defined by the degree to which you allow yourself to be seen. Be mysterious.
7) Keep changing
You may have your trademark glasses, your signature style, or your highly complicated goatee, but the last thing you want is to be frozen in time. Be a chameleon and others will come to you.
8) Be ready for your moment
When opportunities to shine arise, kick into a higher gear. There is a time and a place for your inner child, and then there are those moments when you have to step up to the plate.
9) Keep something back
As hard as it is to get to the top, it's even harder to stay there. So don't give it all away too soon. Keep a few tricks up your sleeve.
10) Enjoy yourself
As the late, great baseball hero Leroy "Satchel" Paige once said: "Work like you don't need the money, love like you've never been hurt, dance like there's nobody watching."
Music: U2: Do You Feel Loved?
Elvis Costello & The Attractions: I Wanna be Loved
Love & Rockets: Love Me