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It was said to me, that if you wait five minutes after eating a first course, in all probability the wish for a pudding will vanish.
This can also be applied to the spoken word, and all desires, both good and bad. Especially when the wish, from some, to exclaim some damaging remark to a close one, or even a stranger, knowing such words will cause maximum damage to the feelings of the recipient.
Surely a five minute pause would give us all more control over such wasted words, or, alternatively, yell them alone, in your own space, thus allowing your body the benefit of "that feels better" without harming anyone else.
I find nothing more sickening than arrogant, ill-thought-out remarks from someone warming the centre of selfishness throughout their life. What gives a person the right to invade anothers space with evil words or actions? If the sufferer is innocent, why is the perpetrator free to act this way?
There appears more freedom in evil, than in peace, at least that's how it looks, though in actual fact it is not so. The evil freedom, I believe lasts but a short time, and is followed by deeper feelings of negativity, whereas the freedom in peace and goodness is harder to find, but lasts eternally when discovered.
We must all try a bit harder.
I'm typing this from my hospital, learning that I have some very, very hard days ahead of me, that now go beyond a spinal injury, and the odds may not be kind to self from hereinafter, but I'll fight it, with renewed vigour.
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What are you all doing tonight?
I will be in hospital in a few moments, (I'm home now, but only for a short while), then tonight will join my friends from Malta for a party.
I learnt yesterday, from the radio, that the average number of words spoken in a day by a woman is 7000, and for a man, 2000. That is quite a difference, do you believe it? Women are better communicators than men, and when something needs to be said, usually to family or friends, or neighbous, the men cannot usually be found!!
In a world where many things are shared, whatever they may be, men and women still have their interesting charateristics!! Shall we celebrate such a fact??
Another fact on the radio, was that Britain has the highest concentration of historic buildings in the world. I suppose it is plain to see, but I never realised this, and feel happy with the thought.
We bemoan so much in Britain, without ever seeing the wood for the trees.
If one thing can be improved in 2006, itis surely British self-esteem.
I am sick of certain people creating a shame on these shores.
I am not 100% British, far from it, and have spent a large part of my life away from here, very far indeed...but if I wish to be attached to any nation in the world, it is Britain...and why?
Why???
Because Britain has so much to be proud of, all the old chiches are true, and there is still a sense of fairplay here not found in a very great number of other countries. Also the humour, the people, though unhappy at times, can still crack a joke when you least expect it...and few people are ever allowed to take themselves too seriously, a great credit to you Britain. You've given the world something you don't always realise yourself.
Everybody, please, feel happier with who you are and where you are...we only have one life, within one skin, in one place at a time...enjoy it, make it valuable!!
Warm wishes to you all dear friends.
Happy New Year!!
love,
lauren6















